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Chris was a kid who—seriously—made a hobby out of crashing his truck and hating his dad. He tragically died by suicide after suffering a psychotic break. This is an oddly self-centered, almost narcissistic approach to friend-making, one that is so pragmatic about costs and benefits that it empties friendship of all beauty, ideals, and mystery. Friendship has fallen on hard times. For most of us friendship is an occasional diversion. In life's banquet, we consume friendship like an appetizer.
For example, if your roommate came home late from a date and you asked her if she was late because she had been out with someone special, she might well reply, "Oh, no. He's just a friend. Nothing special. The Biblical picture of friendship is quite different.
Friendship is actually a kind of love. The Bible describes at least three kinds of love. How much better is your love than wine, and the fragrance of your oils than any spice. Second, the New Testament emphasizes agapeagapic love.
It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. And finally, in the Bible, there is philiafriendship love. Philia is agapic love not for all your neighbours, but for the neighbour who walks with you, shoulder to shoulder, in some shared pursuit or pastime.
For example, when Jonathan died, David sang, "You were very dear to Adult friend Peterson Jonathan, my brother. Your love for me was wonderful, more wonderful than that of women. You are my friends. In the classical and medieval worlds philia love—friendship—was thought of as a higher-level love because it is freely chosen rather than commanded by God or biologically necessary for procreation or desired for sexual pleasure. Both Aristotle and Plato he of Platonic friendship wrote extensively about friendship—what it was, why it mattered, and so on.
In a world without Facebook and toys, friendship was one of the only games going. And so, it was deeply sought after and cherished. Such friendship begins when you a person in pursuit of a shared goal or vision, and it grows as you discover that the sharing is a pleasure. The thing shared might be as simple as stamp-collecting, or tennis, or even a glass of wine and conversation.
Friendship is agapic love not for every neighbour but for the one you have chosen to walk with. Please note. Not just anyone you grow up with, or golf with, or work with is a friend in this sense. Just a few of your two or three hundred or more Facebook friends are friends in this sense. It takes more than liking a post, more than being together; friendship takes a shared sense of a mutual goal or vision that le to mutual regard that grows over time. But the story is told as the tale of a couple of friends who try, at least, to be there for each other in a mutual, loving way while in pursuit of a shared goal.
The hero is Job. In chapter one we learn that he had seven thousand sheep, three thousand camels, five hundred yoke of oxen, five hundred donkeys, seven sons and three daughters. Chaldeans rustle his camels. A storm destroys the house his children are partying at and kills them all. And finally, in chapter 2, Job comes down with leprosy. Job tears his clothes. He shaves his hair. He scratches himself with broken pieces of pottery. But no. The Lord gave, and the Lord Adult friend Peterson away. Blessed be the name of the Lord. So, Job lost everything. Everything, except his friends.
When they saw him, they wept aloud, tore their clothes, put sand and ashes in their hair. Then they sat down with Job for seven days and nights without saying a word. Sat silently. But they did share in this pursuit, this love of truth, while continuing to express their deep regard for Job. Along the way, you will discover that this sort of philia grows into its own kind of love, a love not subject to cost-benefit analysis before anything else—but a love that is very, very good all on its own.
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